Soul Stroke

Can your soul have a stroke?

When the flow of “life blood” is interrupted, it prevents needed sustenance to our very well-being. If emotional numbness, moral weakness & confusion and lack of balance are any indication, I think our souls can have strokes.

Living in a formerly repressive society, where anything could be twisted into offence against the ruling party, I surmise there had to be a lack of soul blood, a masking of oxygen, a clamping of vessels to the soul. It became a massive, irreversible stroke. It didn’t work the way they schemed.  It smashed, repressed, stunted and killed. Seeming good intentions annihilated freedom, beauty and reason. That began 100 years ago.  We live in the aftermath.

Yet…I detect similar leanings in my home country today!

In the repressive society, freedom of speech was a non-entity, let alone initiative and creativity of thought. Fear ruled. Anything deemed ill-spoken could have been judged against the accepted narrative with harsh consequences.

This is sounding way too familiar…

If caught up in faulty logic and subjective interpretations, a view (that doesn’t fit into a preferred narrative) is dismissed, this is a major loss.  Where is the equal playing field? A gradual shift in belief, sloppy indifference to philosophical foundations, letting pleasure and comfort lull to sleep, moves the subtle shift to a massive rift.

“Freedom of speech [saying what I think might be wrong or might be needed] is the oxygen of liberty.”  

“…where only the permitted narrative is tolerated then…you know what a diminished life this is going to cause.”  Heather Higgins

America with its government from the people, responsible to the people, is founded and built upon hearing what the people think. That is what has continued to bring about change and progress; rather than imposing unreachable seemingly virtuous ideals that bring inevitable destructive results.  (ex. Open border)

These pernicious ideas squelch some and megaphone others, rather than holding everyone to the same rules or the same treatment.  Where is the reason and accountability when there can’t be robust debate, healthy disagreement and respectful dialogue?

Let’s beware of our souls succumbing to the unhealthy habits of communication that lead to soul strokes!

How can our communication enhance dialogue even when there is disagreement?

 Listen to Peter’s words to people living under the repression of the Romans and the persecution of the Jewish leaders of their day.

“…even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame.”  1 Peter 3:14-16

We need Him for this!

 

A great book to help in navigating difficult conversations with truth and love:

I Beg to Differ by Tim Muehlhoff

Soul Bones

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There are many good spiritual trainings, teachings, and materials available now, but without follow through, walking it out, or making it your own…it’s just a “notebook on the shelf”, as professor Howard Hendricks said.

For personal & leader development, I’ve crafted a way to take a deeper dive into walking out things we have well situated in our heads but haven’t yet settled into our hearts… let alone our bones! I’ve written a journey facilitator’s guide.

For the 1st anniversary of my book publishing, I’m offering a free pdf of this guide with the purchase of my book Your Life is Re-markable. From now until Sept 12, just send me a screen shot of your purchase & I’ll send you the guide!

If you’d like to join a journey group or explore facilitating one, Contact me at soulfit.us Let’s get this stuff into our bones!

 

What is a journey group?

Journey Coaching  –   Jackie Scott MA, PCC

 

-A small group journey together to unearth deep-seated beliefs that affect our lives and to give insight to walking in love and freedom.

These sessions are done by invitation for those committed to going deeper in exploring their lives and spirituality over a period of 10, 90-minute sessions.

PURPOSE:

  • identify a growth area in my life where God wants to work;
  • recognize the lies that I have lived by regarding that area
  • work with God to uproot those lies and plant His truth.

“Behold, You desire truth in the innermost being, and in the hidden part You will make me know wisdom.” Psalm 51:6  

These sessions include:

Taking a look (Ps. 139:23, 24)

  • It’s Biblical to “work” on ourselves
  • We need to choose to work with God on ourselves
  • The enemy is prowling yet God’s power over him is our hope

 Probing our lives (Lam. 3:40) 

Beginning to hear our self-talk

 Digging deeper into our patterns and beliefs (1 Tim. 4:16)

 Life journey lines/early foundations/arrows

 Innermost Being (2 Cor. 10:4,5)

Fighting the lies/renewing our minds

 Battle Within (Ephe. 6:10)

 Walking in the Spirit/recognizing the schemes of the enemy

 Overcoming (Rom. 8:37)

 Misconceptions of God and self/scripts from our past

 View of God & self

We are being transformed into the new self (Ephe. 4:24)

Transforming (Rom 12:1,2)

 Setting our minds on the Spirit/going to the hard places (Gal. 5:1)

 “Plunder” and Purpose (1 John 3:8)

 Keeping our freedom from slavery to our old ways

 Celebration & Resilience (Exodus 15)

 Life Planning, Resilience and Self-value

 

Gordon McDonald in his A Resilient Life p. 98 says:

“… We carry within ourselves all our yesterdays, the experiences and influences that have happened from our birth to this present moment. These yesterdays can powerfully affect today, the right-now and dominate our relationships, our choices, our view of ourselves, and even our understanding of God. If our yesterdays are in a state of good repair, they provide strength for today. If not repaired, they create havoc.”

 

Responses from recent groups:

“This journey group gave me the motivation and support to unearth deep lies and to begin to allow God in to redeem and restore. That is what I want more than anything; to walk in a way that is beautiful to the Lord… I know that I will get nowhere by continuing in the lies that I have identified. I wrote some of the claims or stakes that I am working on believing in my heart. I feel that my heart is often stubborn and slow to accept truth and often more comfortable hanging onto negativity or arguments to support old lies. But it is a journey and I feel that these messages of truth are slowly penetrating.”  

 

“It has guided and encouraged me in heart changes that I would not have done alone or without the wisdom from others who have experience walking with the Lord. I didn’t know what I was missing! Having your eyes opened to blind areas in your life is hard but having a spiritually mature coach gives you permission to look into those areas with confidence God won’t abandon you during the process.  – the prayers have opened my heart to communing with God in ways I have not known before and it’s been something I have shared with others each week. Practicing and doing them together has been a huge encouragement – despite how vulnerable it makes me feel. Hearing others talk with God and how they relate with Him gives the group a connection I don’t think would be there otherwise.”  

 

 “It gave me a renewed ability to focus and straighten my priorities on what needed to be worked on. It opened my eyes to my own life and past and hurts that impact me on a daily basis and gave me the ability and opportunity to reflect on my life and who I am. It has opened my eyes to things from my past that need to change to bring me closer to the woman that God has made me to be.”

 

Facilitators’s Guide

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